“Most victims of sexual abuse aren't interested in large sums of money, nor could they possibly receive it from suing a relative, family friend, etc. Victims want to protect children by holding abusers accountable.”Melanie Blow | Incest Survivor
There is a lot of disinformation spread about the Child Victims Act. The source? Organizations and individuals who resent their dark secrets being exposed. Not surprisingly the Roman Catholic Church, supported by some Orthodox Jewish organizations, lead the fight for the status quo. A status quo that sees 9 out of 10 sex offenders protected by New York’s laws. A status quo that keeps all New York’s children at risk.
Syracuse Bishop Robert Cunningham testified in a 2011 sworn deposition that the victims of child-molesting priests are partly to blame for their own abuse. This is clearly dangerously ludicrous. The Oscar winning film Spotlight, and any number of sex abuse court cases, exposed the complicity of the church in covering up reports of clergy abuse, and worse moving clergy abusers to new parishes where they could abuse more children.
Whilst it seems reasonable to compensate victims for the devastating impact that child sex abuse has on their lives most survivors seek justice as a way to protect more children from what they have endured. That justice is the only way to ensure pedophiles, and the organizations that shelter them, are exposed. That justice places offenders on sex abuse registries. That justice protects all of our children.
Objecting to that justice is self serving. Accusing victims of clergy abuse of trying to ‘rape’ the Roman Catholic Church is derisory.
Frequently Asked Questions
What Are Statutes of Limitations?
They are laws that say that a survivor of sexual abuse cannot bring their case to trial after they reach a certain age. In New York State the statute of limitations is 23, 3 years after their 18th birthday. It takes the average survivor 21 years to overcome the shame and stigma of abuse. That’s why the Stop Abuse Campaign supports bills that eliminate both the criminal and civil statutes of limitations on child sexual abuse.
Aren't most cases fabricated?
Research shows it is very rare for adults or children to fabricate a claim of sexual abuse. If they try, they will usually be caught during their initial questioning by the police. The fact that evidence fades over time means it is very hard to convict a decades old case. But it happens and we encourage all survivors to report their abuse when they can.
How can you prove you were sexually abused years ago?
Even if a child discloses sexual abuse when they are still a child, it is exceptionally rare for them to disclose it immediately after the abuse happens. They often wait months or years. Prosecutors are used to prosecuting cases where a lot of time has elapsed between the abuse and the trial. Children are notoriously poor witnesses. They often have only moderate effect, with their developmental abilities brought into question. Judges and juries often expect to see medical evidence. Adult witnesses have some advantages that children do not. Adult victims of the same abusers can meet and corroborate. They can sometimes get their abuser to confess. They can speak more articulately. And they can seek appropriate medical and psychological treatment for themselves.
Don't statutes of limitations exist for a reason?
Yes, they do. Usually most people are interested in prosecuting a crime immediately after they have victimized. Their is usually more evidence that a crime has been committed immediately after the crime has been committed. Child sex abuse is different. Children cannot press charges themselves. They often don’t have an adult who believes or advocates for them. Children rarely name their abuser while they are still children. A recent study shows it takes survivors, on average, 21 years before they can speak about their abuse. As the average age of first victimization is 9 years old the problem that SOL’s cause by locking survivors out of courts is clear. There are no statutes of limitations for murder in any state. Many cities have no statutes of limitations for parking tickets. And that’s why some states, like North Carolina, have removed their statutes of limitations on child sexual abuse.
Doesn't it make more sense to focus on recent crimes?
Sex offenders rarely stop offending until they are held accountable. Since offenders will offend from adolescence until their eighties prosecuting old crimes protects a lot of today’s children. Studies show sex offenders often having up to three hundred victims throughout their lives. This means that every opportunity to prosecute them is a real opportunity to protect children.
Why do SOL's need to be changed in civil court too?
Retroactive justice in criminal courts is unconstitutional. So when an adult survivor is too old to seek justice in criminal court because SOL’s have expired changing the criminal SOL’s is not enough. Retroactively suing your abuser for damages in civil court is constitutional, if the state passes a law allowing for it. Survivors seek justice for many reasons, protecting children from the consequences they themselves have endured is usually top of their list. Where criminal courts cannot act civil courts can. This way lists of offenders found liable in civil court can be published and can be used in background checks.
Surely children will disclose abuse to protect themselves?
Abusers use lot’s of techniques to stop children from disclosing. They will threaten and manipulate the children. They often become a major part of the child’s life; providing them with love, security, gifts, attention and other helpful hooks. Grooming desensitizes children to touch, including sexual touch, over time. Around half of abusers are a part of the child’s family. Relatives rarely suspect each other, and statistically are unlikely to believe or help a child who discloses to them.
Isn't it better to teach survivors to forgive and move on with their lives?
SOL reform is mostly about protecting today’s children although some survivors find the experience of bringing their abuser to trial healing. Others find forgiving their abuser is healing. For many survivors though the two are not incompatible. Being sexually abused raises your ACE score, and costs survivors an estimated $210,000 in medical care and lost earnings, regardless of whether they forgive their abuser or not. The way one survivor chooses to heal should not prevent another survivor’s right to bring their abuser to court, nor should it deny future children the right to be protected from abuse.